The day's of our lives

Oh, those fun days of high school. He said, she said.....And all that bullshit. We've all been there. We've all started it or been at the end of it. Or just had to deal with it. I'm gonna start some now.

DRAMA

Oooo, that nasty word that everyone says that they hate. Bull fucking shit, I say. Everyone loves Drama. You and you .....even you, admit it.....fuck you, you do like it!

Everyone has it in their lives. It could be family, friends, work or just some D.U.M. fuck across the street that is always starting shit. Either way, we are all involved. Everyone of us. We are.

Don't believe me?

How many times have you come home to complain about someone at work? How many times have you complained about a Friend that is being retarded? Watched some type of drama movie/T.V. show. Raise your hands......See all of you. You all like Drama. There's no way around it. You are reading this.... and this would be my drama.

I deal with this.....Disease, every day. I have 3 girls in my house, I am the only boy/MAN. That's right feel my pain. My wife has always got something to complain about. She starts going on...and on...and on....about something I care nothing about (mostly work), My eyes glaze over and I go to my spacial place. My work day, 5-10 min conversation. Her work day 1 1/2 hours...only because I put a stop to it at that point.

But then you get that one person that just loves drama. I know a few of them. They are either always the end of it, OR the cause of it. In my opinion (and my opinion is always right), these people are the cause of their own misery. Most times these people just...Don't get it. They say or do things that are just....Wrong. They just don't understand. We all know people like this. No matter what you say to them, how you explain something, they...JUST....DON'T....GET IT.

Ever heard a rumor about yourself? And said,"WTF!?, That's so not true! Who the fuck started that?". You know that "Highschool" shit that none of us like.

I've had this happen to me...many times in fact. Truth to tell I don't really care though. I remember one time in highschool I was accused of getting a girl pregnant.....I was living in a different Province at the time...., but you know, it could happen....not to brag, but hey, I could be a porn star!

OK, I'm gonna put this out there as this is the reason why I am writing this post.

There is some Drama going on between 2 people I know. Its really funny. It's all over, "What time you wake up",...Umm, That's Drama? You ask. Yes, in this case it is, as it has ended a life long friendship. Pathetic you say! Nooooooo, how can that be pathetic? Because someone didn't want to talk on the phone at that given moment? Said person wanted to sleep until 10am. Ugg, So fucking wrong of her. That fucking Bitch. Oh, wait..... She has no kids, She works nights, She was up until 2am+, So wait a minute. 2am till 10am....that would be 8 hours of sleep. Far shy of sleeping in. I would say sleeping in would be 10+ hours of sleep.

Alright though, I will admit that calling at say...9am is an appropriate time to call someone. BUT, if that person does not answer the phone, leave a MSG, Especially if you know that person works nights. If that said person wants to talk to you, they'll call back. Don't leave a MSG on say...uummm....Facebook....I will be the first to say, I leave my browser open on Facebook all the time....all night....all day.....NOT a good Msg'ing service. But some people don't think about these things, so we have to be forgiving. So when the phone is finally answered with,"You just woke me up, I haven't had a Smoke or a Coffee, Fuck off." you need to be forgiving.

1. Never ask a Smoker to be happy first thing in the morning.
2. Never ask a Coffee drinker to be functional first thing in the morning.
3 Don't expect anyone to be in a good mood when you just woke them up early on their day off.

These are my 3 life rules to live by. Follow them....Live by them....They are the Rules!

To ruin a friendship over something as trivial as this...well..I got to say is kinda pathetic. 15+ years of friendship all gone because someone is grumpy first thing in the morning after being woken up on their day off....

Come on, did it really ruin your day that badly to have someone be grumpy to you?

I have been just a bystander through all this. I have been working on this post for a few days so as not to seem...Bias. Just chuckling away at the absurdity of it all.

Until this.

This pissed me off. I got to say, I got really angry at this. It was totally unfair and a shot below the belt.

Person A, has no children. Its a life choice. Her and her husband, enjoy the life they have and don't want to "rock the boat" so to say. They don't want to invest the time or responsibility in having kids. Not to say that they would not be great parents. They are both great with my oldest daughter. They are Auntie and uncle to her. But, they have chosen that kids in their chosen lifestyle is not a good idea. I agree with them. If you are not prepared to have to change how you do EVERYTHING, Kids are not a good idea. Being able to do what you want, when you want, the rewards are great!

Person B, Has 2 kids. I have not met them myself, but i hear they're good kids. This is also a life choice. You have decided to commit your life to these children. This is how it is. Your life is no longer your life....It is theirs.....IT SUCKS!, But hey, the rewards are great!

But to attack someone on the way they have chosen to live their lives is WRONG. It's a dirty move. So disrespectful, I don't even have curse words to fully.....express....my rage at this. And to write about this where the other one can't read it....Well hey, half of drama is talking about people behind their backs isn't it?

I have kids. I love them both dearly. But it is a lot of work. Any parent can attest to this. If you are not willing to "give all you got" to your kids, DON'T HAVE THEM. And if you decide not to have kids, that's great. No one likes to see a child that is not properly taken care of. Whether you can properly take care of them or you can't or wont.

When it come down to it, it is sad to see a friendship go down the tubes over something so trivial....